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Amherst HS is not an inner city school. It's a fairly small rural school. That makes this kid even more of a celebrity in his school and town. One of the things that being a major sport star at any school, much less a small town school, is that they are given special treatment.
Having been close to a state championship baseball team in a small town, I know that 2 of the star players were known to have drug issues. They were even sent home by the coaches before a game when they showed up drunk and high. The coach of the baseball team was also the Athletic Director of the school. He had to know that these kids didn't have "the flu" like he was telling the rest of the team. These kids were never disciplined any further than missing a game that was basically meaningless toward the overall success of the team.
My simple point is this... We are creating a society where winning a championship is more important than the moral success of a person. These two players on our baseball team were allowed to have their drug and alcohol issues go unresolved because winning a title was too important.
Here's what happened to each of the two baseball players after our school won the state title. Player #1 didn't have the grades to go to college and ended up helping his brother sell drugs and was arrested and put on probation the next year. Player #2 went to college, made a Div II baseball team where he was later kicked off the team for failing a drug test.
Coaches and Athletic Directors need to learn that letting a player continue to be a star despite their drug problems are not setting them up to succeed despite their problems, but are setting them up to have a bigger fall when their character issue flaws are discovered. Parents need to realize that they need to be role models for their children (regardless of whether or not their kids are athletes or not) and show them that they can enjoy life and not use drugs. And everyone needs to stop putting high school athletes on such high pedestals making the athlete to believe that are superhuman and above the law.
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